Pregnancy can bring on a flood of conflicting feelings. As happy as I may be about the new life growing inside me, my ever-changing and expanding body makes me feel uncomfortable and anything but beautiful. As my breasts grow, my waistline disappears, and my belly swells, I long to have my old body back — It’s hard not to.
Though I take comfort in the fact that the most awkward and frustrating phase in pregnancy is often when your belly is growing but you don’t look pregnant yet, just like as I was during first trimester. But as soon as my second trimester hits, I am already set to enjoying in that “pregnancy glow”.
If there’s anything I want to communicate, it is for women especially pregnant women to feel good about themselves and to have fun while they’re at it!
When I wasn’t pregnant yet, and kept seeing fashionable moms-to-be, I kept imagining what I would be like when I too, become pregnant. Naturally since I love fashion and style, it has been my dream or should I say mantra that I would maintain my love for fashion and be a stylish preggy momma.
Although in my first trimester, I wasn’t up for anything other than just brushing my teeth, taking a shower and donning any huge t-shirt I can find in my closet. It was only now in my second trimester that my love for dressing up became apparent. But more than anything, dressing up is a form of self-expression. It is more about how I feel about myself and how happy and contented I am with my new state that I wanted to show.
‘The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It’s the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows and the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years.’ – Audrey Hepburn
Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak. – Rachel Zoe
Elegance is the only beauty that never fades. – Audrey Hepburn
I would never have enjoyed documenting every aspect of my pregnancy if not for my very supportive and talented husband. Thanks so much, my B.